You have found someone that you are very interested in, and all of the signs make you believe the feelings are mutual!

However, the fact that you are hundreds of miles apart is very frustrating! You have no idea how to keep his attention...

There are a few ways to keep his attention online (and offline) that seems to work:

Stay in touch, without being a pest! Do not flood his inbox at work and at home with cute cards, jokes, etc. That soon becomes annoying.

Send one heart felt email during the day, and what I call a "bedtime story" before you sign off for the night...

What you need to do is this, write a slightly "erotic" story about the two of you. Then, send him a paragraph or two each night. Such as;

"Even thou we have spoken on the phone for months, I couldn't wait to meet you in person. Even across the crowded airport, I felt your eyes on me. I turned...our eyes met for the first time. The racing of my heart involuntarily caused my breast to rise and then settle rhythmically. You had the smile that I could only dream of...racing through the crowd, I melted into the warmth of your strong embrace. I gently swept my cheek against yours...the slight stubble on your face, mixed with the scent of your cologne did things to me that until now only happened in my dreams of you..."

I would add to this story. With a little creativity this scenario could go on forever. I mean just thing about...you leave the airport and the two of you get a little "busy" in the car. You stop for dinner...and things are going on under the table. Stop at a bar and find a table for two, over looking a very romantic skyline...the corner is dimly lit...take advantage of it!! Use all of the creativity you have to bridge the distance and keep his attention online!

Trust me...if the story is constructed correctly? Once it is read, you will no doubt receive a phone call...and the voice on the other end will be very aroused. He will fall asleep with you and only you on his mind!