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| Relationships - From Loneliness to Self Sufficiency |
Are you one of those people who feel lonely and craves the need for social interaction. If so you likely know that not only does this make you unattractively "needy" to others, it also jeopardizes your chances of ever feeling happy and inwardly peaceful. What's at the root of these "loneliness" feelings and can anything be done to alleviate if not eradicate them once and for all? Yes, it is possible to go from feeling lonely to feeling self sufficiently confident. Here's how.
Feelings of loneliness arise mainly from a deep feeling of emptiness that must be quenched by having others around to validate them and make them feel whole, complete, OK, important, wanted, lovable and significant.
This emptiness arises largely from memories of experiences likely had early in childhood when the individual felt unloved , unlovable, unwanted, unimportant, not validated and so on. These memories reside within the subconscious mind/body and there they act as "evidence" that suggests to them that they are somehow "not OK" because they didn't get what was needed from important people in their lives.
From this so-called evidence they unconsciously infer that they are "deficient" and hence there in are generated the feelings of "emptiness" that they need to constantly compensate for.
So simply said we have that:
A) The memories drive or support the belief that they are deficient.
B) The belief that they are deficient drives the feelings of emptiness.
C) The feelings of emptiness drive the feelings of loneliness.
D) The feelings of loneliness drive the need to compensate by attempting to get others to fill the emptiness through their loving attention and/or presence.
The problem with all of this is that as long as those memories are stored unconsciously the feelings of emptiness will always be there!
The only effective way to release the feelings of emptiness, loneliness and the need to get attention and love is to "erase" erase permanently the memories that suggest to that individual that they are deficient in the first place.
This can be done with a powerfully new process called the Mind Resonance Process® (MRP). In doing so the "empty" feelings disappear as they are replaced by the Life Force Energy that was missing within.
You see such negative memories actually deplete one's Life Force Energy and it is this depletion that is responsible for the feeling of emptiness in the first place. Hence the only way to restore the individual to "wholeness" or "integrity" is to help them reclaim their displaced Life Force Energy. This is what MRP effectively does.
You can learn more about MRP, by visiting the web link below. There you can listen to a recently recorded internet radio program on MRP, sign up for the MRP newsletter or request a free MRP telephone consultation. |
| 12/25/2008 |
| About Author |
| Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author, Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator who lives in Toronto, Canada. He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the Mind Resonance ProcessĀ® (MRP) that powerfully and permanently erases negative memories. |
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