In general, when a man comes to me looking for ways to get women approaching him I do my best to get him to realize that attempting to get a woman in that fashion isn't a good idea for a variety of reasons.

One of the biggest and most troubling is that you end up settling for a woman that isn't what you really wanted because she happened to come along first and when you are waiting for a woman to approach you it doesn't take long to figure out that they don't come around that often.

In other words, you end up settling for what you can get because you don't have or know how to create any other options.

Look at it this way, as a man you can choose to go to the restaurant of your choice and choose what you want to eat or you can go down to the local Homeless shelter or Food Bank and eat what they give you.

Woman that you approach would be the "restaurant" of your choosing and waiting on women to approach you well while it pains me to say it that is the "Food bank".

Now, don't get me wrong there are plenty of quality women that approach men just like every now and then I imagine the Homeless shelter has a real special treat and serves up Steak or Lobster.

Bottom line is this; if you desire to have the kind of woman that you want you must be willing to approach a woman as that is the only way you can guarantee that you at least attempted to see if you and the woman that you want were right for each other.

Otherwise, all you are doing is waiting to get lucky and there are no guarantees in that.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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