Marriage of mail child is different ball game in India. The responsibility of a male child in our Indian society is very high. Parents want their sons to be their caretakers at old age and impose the other responsibilities of looking after the needs of his sisters and brothers as well. The son in the family is generally brought up instilling these expectations in mind. So naturally they start looking for a suitable bride who will assist their son in the family responsibilities as well.

But when should he decide to marry? As for the groom the basic necessity is a high paying job to run his household with the increased expenses after marriage. He must calculate how much he can comfortably spare for the family when he decides to settle down after marriage. He must be financially independent before marrying. The bride and the groom must mentally prepare themselves for the life long commitment and be ready for a more responsible life. When we talk about age then it should not be just the physical age but mental maturity need to be consider to start and lead new life successfully

But at the same time it is not good to postpone marriage for too long either. It may add social and physiological pressure. Also getting right partner would be difficult if one's age goes beyond 30. The age difference between the bride and the groom is also considered as important by many people in Indian society. Some say that there should be at least 2-5 year age gap between the spouses. It is just a common idea among the older generation in India. They feel that this age gap will keep strong mutual respect between the couple. But it has nothing to do with the respect or understanding or even the maturity level between the couple.

Some people marry under parental pressure and then find it hard to cope up with the family pressures. If the job is demanding major part of his life then it is best to wait until the job pressure resides or find a better job which offers him some free time for his family. Today jobs market is so very feasible and competitive that unless you give your very best in service and time you are black listed and even fired for non performance.

When the jobs are so demanding how to find time to start a family? Think twice before deciding your matrimonial if this is the case. Or find an equally busy bride with a job as well. But then life will become too monotonous and frustrating. What's the use of earning when you don't find time to relax with your beloved?

Financial position need to be analyzed and find out how much loan you can get for the matrimony expenses. Have some savings or funds and invest sensibly to anticipate urgent family needs after marriage. Whatever your age or position don't accept to marry under pressure or completion. It is a life time decision and it is going to affect you lifelong. Stand on your own feet, take time to decide and then marry the lady of your dreams.